Tuesday, May 18, 2010

Forever a mom...

...Even when you daughter doesn’t write about you for over a week. Mercy.

We DID celebrate Mother’s day and all the women in our lives. We ALSO celebrated JB’s birthday on the same day. During all of these celebrations we ALSO got EB’s hair cut for the first time. What a day, I tell ya.
JB turned 33 and had to celebrate his day with an ocean of estrogen + a tiny ‘tude who rules his world. He is so wonderful to our little family and works so very hard for us. We love you, JB. Moving right along. The fam came over to celebrate the moms, grandmom and aunt in our family who have helped to mold and shape us into who we are today. Ironically, my “Nannie” is a MEAN cook and I didn’t inherit a SINGLE one of those genes. That’s INCREDIBLY unfortunate. In fact, all of the dishes “we” brought to the table were, in fact, prepared by Jason. Domestic Goddess I am NOT. I can iron…and do some mean laundry…I’m REALLY good at cleaning toilets....

This lady right here is my lifesaver.
(can we get an updated pic soon, folks? I've since fixed that mess on my head-the woes of going back natural..)
She doesn't hesitate to run down to EB’s school and grab her if/when I get stuck. She is QUICK to let EB spend the night at “nightclub” when we have something going on. She jumps to rescue EB when we have the virus of the week- usually resulting in her being the next victim. She is SPEEDY fast at putting herself last and aiding in any of her kid’s needs at that moment. In EB’s short life, I have learned how quickly UNIMPORTANT my needs/wants are when it comes to those of my child. I think I learned that from watching my mom. NEVER have our needs gone unmet. NEVER was there a sporting event, recital, program, concert, etc that I was not able to look out and see my parent’s faces, my grandparent’s faces and my aunt’s face all smiling back. Never, I tell you. NOT.ONE.EVENT. That goes for the brother too. Since Jason has entered this family, that goes for him too. That is special. My family is really special…. we operate under a group of special ladies (and who…well… I really didn’t get good pictures of). Onto the tiniest lady in the group. Sister-friend DID NOT, let me repeat, DID NOT enjoy the spa we set up in the kitchen. I shouldn’t be shocked that she didn’t want to be still, but I was. It took LOTS of strength, singing, choice words under my breath sweet words, conniving, manipulating, fruit on a stick to get her to cooperate. My aunt is one impressive and talented lady to wrestle the bull and STILL cut a straight line. Nonetheless, the child got her ears lowered and I’m happy. I couldn’t handle the stringy mess it was quickly becoming.

(See stringy mess)

Outtakes:




As for me on Mother’s Day, I was honored. My mom honored me. My husband honored me. Of course, it’s an honor to be a mom to my MOST precious gift. Since becoming a mom, I’ve gotten all kinds of serious emotions working for me. So, I find myself quite sentimental. Sentimental over having a family to celebrate and to celebrate with. Having a mom who I can still talk to WHENEVER I want to. Having a grandmother who I can still talk to WHENEVER I want to, eat breakfast with EVERY Thursday morning and to share my child with her who is LITERALLY the highlight of her life, I’m preeeetty sure. My heart was heavy this year, too, because we’ve had a few friends who have lost their moms….aware of a few moms who have lost their most precious gifts. My heart hurt for them, yet made me celebrate “my” day just that much more. I’m surrounded by incredible moms. I meet them at McDonalds so their kids can play and I can ask a MILLION questions. I live across, up and down the street from some of the best, I work with great moms and my child attends school with kids who have great moms. So, I feel blessed…. and I’m honored, I really am, every single day. --However, I don't feel so "proud" of this angle..Thank you, brother, for capturing the triple chin. It takes A LOT to get EB to smile for the camera-

Friday, May 14, 2010

“Our” grads

I debated on “sending” off our grads (considering I haven’t even written about Mother’s Day yet)…. So here we go again, sending off another group of students who I adore. This comes around WAY too often.

I love them. They (along with grads from two years ago, last year and the near future) hold SUCH a very special place in our hearts. They are a huge reason why JB is where he is today. They love my child. They were as excited about her arrival as we were. They love us (I think), although not as much we love them. I feel like I’m in my element when they are in my house and I’m serving them-although, they serve us more than we serve them. We always want them to feel like they are welcome, and at home away from home. If you knock on my door, that means you’re a newbie. If you’re a student and don’t know the code to my garage door, you’re a newbie. If you’ve never asked me to wash your OL shirt, nurse uniform and the like, well… Do we know you?!

This weekend you’ll turn the page to a whole new chapter called ADULTHOOD! We are SO proud of y’all. We love y’all like you’re our own. I’ll miss y’all and will need you to call, text, FB me, read my blog…SOMETHING. This is an exciting time and we are so thankful for the year(s) we got to spend with you guys. You guys deserve the whole world. I was at pinning this morning for the nursing students and their speaker said, “Don’t flaunt your success, but don’t apologize for it either.” I thought of EVERY.SINGLE.ONE.OF.YOU. You all will do well, you’re too equipped not to. We’ll look back and say, “We remember them when……”

We love y’all! Best of luck. I look so forward to seeing the Lord’s plan for each of you- it will truly be something spectacular because you are extraordinary! Thank you for loving Jason Black! Thank you for loving me! Thank you for loving Evie and treating her like she was your baby sister. Thank you for supporting us. Thanks for the fun, guys! I’ve laughed harder in the last couple of years than I think I EVER have.

I could go on…. but that’s enough. Too many words and memories.


sometimes they wore weird makeup....

The day after EB was born...

See, they supported JB....

The prepared him for having a girl...

Pre-EB

We go Greek.....

If you were a freshman would you be scared?

We love y'all!!! Keep in touch, ya hear?!

Monday, May 10, 2010

Summer in Courtyard

If this isn’t a sign of summer, I just don’t know what is. I love my neighbors. No, really, I LOVE them. I wish we could all live together forever. They are some of the most caring, giving, FUN, precious, smart (and there’s me), loving people. We broke ground on our house in 2005 and moved in in 2006. So, in the four years we’ve lived there, we have formed awesome friendships, doubled and quadrupled the offspring, laughed, cried, been mad at each other, etc. etc. etc. No kidding, when all of the houses were complete and occupied we had (give me a minute, I’m really bad at math) THREE (!!!) babies. I’m floored by what I’m about to tell you….Now we have NINE kiddos + a few that live right outside of our ‘hood that we claim. WOW! Look at all of those blessings! How could we not have fun?! We're missing a few of our buds in these pics.I didn’t take pictures of the MASSIVE water balloon fight that went down on Friday evening between these guys and their daddies.
(Do you think they're all laughing at her for showing off those thighs? Probably so.)
However, I can tell you that we were sitting at dinner and got a phone call concerning our whereabouts. The Blacks can’t be ambushed, so I dropped JB off on the corner so he could do a sneak attack. See, we just have good ol’ fun.

Side note: We aren’t as ‘red’ as it may appear. There’s a reason for EB’s dress being all hiked up, revealing those yummy legs…. Everyone knows you can’t have proper climbing and sliding form with a dress tangling you up…. What’s a gal to do? Hike it on up and tie it back, of course!

Thursday, May 6, 2010

Gran-Nan the birthday gal

So, I have the honor of eating breakfast with my grandparents EVERY Thursday morning (I think I’ve mentioned this before). I do cherish those early breakfasts and I try hard to work my schedule around that time every week. Sometimes we have to miss, but we are pretty faithful to the Thursday morning breakfast routine.

My grandparents are precious to me. They always have been. There are so many memories stored back in my cranium of them throughout my life. They are definitely a fixture in my life, in Jason’s life and now in EB’s life.

It’s funny, EB is in that stage where she is super social…from a distance. If you get close and she doesn’t know you, it’s over. So, while she sees her great grands fairly often, she doesn’t see them every week. However, she LOVES them. She’ll crawl up in their laps, let them carry her, run towards them, etc. It’ll melt you. She probably just knows they begged for one of her….they were probably THE MOST excited family member about her birth…they love her despite her attitude, temper tantrums, etc.

With that said, today is Great Gran-Nan’s 79th birthday. Evie had the privilege of coming to Thursday morning breakfast. She ate….and ate…..and ate. Her great grands got to take her to Fort Knox school afterwards so they could learn the system and see her school. Wouldn’t you know she bellied up to the table and ate some more once we left?! Mercy. Anyway, back to the subject at hand, she enjoyed breakfast with the birthday girl!

Happy Birthday to one of my most favorite people with my ABSOLUTE favorite person.
Funny story: EB is saying "CHEEEESE" b/c I told her to. However, she doesn't get that it means to smile, so she's turning in an effort to ask for cheese. Funny and NOT surprising.

Tuesday, May 4, 2010

EB and I took a day recently to enjoy each other. It was fun. I love her. She was a diva [SHOCKING]. Considering, at that point, that we had been sick EVERY weekend since Easter, she had yet to wear her Easter dress. So, we (meaning her-b/c I remember sweating profusely, being covered in mud and commenting to myself that I’m glad I opted against the white pants) donned her Easter finest and headed over to a local garden(s) for a little shoot with my VERY unprofessional self- so don’t judge.

The goal: to simply get pictures of the babe. You will notice, she never smiled, she only wanted to play in the various bodies of water, she was more interested in the snake we found (yep)and the baby geese whose mom was NONE to happy about our presence-sorry, old lady, you and your babes were blocking our exit.

A day (or in this case 40 min) with EB. Get ready.....
"No, EB, snakes bite."

Quite possibly my favorite pic. It's quite indicative of us- disheveled at ALL times (oh, and of course the tears)

This is just funny. A pose. Really, EB?!

And....She's done.

I couldn't imagine a better day with anyone else!